One of the things that happens in long-term marriages is that the demands of everyday life steal our attention away from our partners and paying attention to the other is crucial for happy relationships. This lack of focus on your spouse slowly unravels the fabric of a solid relationship.
Sometimes the disintegration happens over a number of years, during which the couple exist in a kind of emotional limbo. Statistically, it takes couples up to six years to seek help or advice after they’ve reached a tipping point. And that, he says, only increases the impact on the marriage.
You must have done something right when you both said I do at the alter or elsewhere in the full glare of friends and family. After all, the woman of your dreams married you, didn't she? Now that she has a ring on her finger, don't think you can get comfortable and stop trying to impress her.
Mignon McLaughlin said, “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” Therefore,listed below are 20 proven ways to make your wife fall in love with you again and again. ⦁ Tell her she looks good in her jeans. ⦁ Catch her eye across the room at a party and wink. ⦁ Do the dishes while she takes a bath. ⦁ Gaze into her eyes. ⦁ Ask her about her day. Then, don't interrupt as she tells you about it. ⦁ Listen to her problems without trying to fix them. Sometimes, women just need to vent. Let her know that you hear her and that you will always be there for her. ⦁ Encourage her to take a night out with the girls. ⦁ Buy her something in which you know she'll look good. ⦁ Ask her opinion. ⦁ Give her a neck massage without expecting it to go somewhere. ⦁ Rent a chick flick and snuggle while you watch. ⦁ Leave a love note on her pillow. ⦁ Kiss her goodbye before heading to work. ⦁ Encourage her dreams. Don't let her abandon them because she's a wife and mother. ⦁ Read to her before bed. Just not something by Stephen King. ⦁ Appreciate her loud and often. ⦁ Buy her roses or chocolates on a day that is not her birthday or a major holiday. ⦁ Call her and let her know you've been thinking about her all day. Tell her you just wanted to hear her voice. ⦁ Book a hotel and take her away for the weekend, just the two of you. ⦁ Wash her car. Preferably, without a shirt.